Porn Isn’t Sweet Talk, Gentlemen

Welling-with-tears  It is no secret that there is pornography for every lust, sexual orientation, fantasy and gender. Men AND women access it, use it, produce it, and abuse it. But to date, research shows the vast majority of porn is targeted a men due to commonly cited reason of male visual stimulation.

But unlike the secret, seedy shops of long ago, porn is available at the click of a button. You don't even have to prove you're of legal age.

According to the article below, young boys are now expecting their girlfriends to perform like the fantasy models they see and hear from porn they've accessed. They're demanding it so much that young girls are bringing along chaperones on dates for safety, praying for stricter parental guidance, and weeping over feeling like nothing but a disgusting fantasy.

Boys… listen up: porn will destroy your life. It is a lie that feels good, naughty and powerful. But do not be suckered in — it will kill your relationships. Period. Women and girls are equal to you. They aren't your playthings. What you're exposing yourself to is a lie… a fabrication… and to expect your loved one to live up to such lies is terribly damaging. Treat your girlfriend with the utmost respect because of who she is… not so she'll perform for you, or any expectation that she should.

I'm no prude. Sexuality isn't a subject we should shy away from or quit speaking about. But let me be clear: demanding girls to act out sexual deceptions is destructive and wrong. There is no way any real female can live up to the made-up, Photo-shopped, perfectly lit, over done world porn presents. Girls can't. Women can't. Nor should they.

If girls are feeling they need to bring 'third wheels' on dates to protect themselves from their own loved ones because those loved ones are starry-eyed over Playboy, something's wrong. And guys… you need to be the ones to cut the cord.
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Teenage boys watching hours of internet pornography every week are treating their girlfriends like sex objects

By
Penny Marshall
Last updated at 1:40 AM on 06th March 2010

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